"Oh. No." JJ shook his head. "That's just how we talk at our house, sorry. We share our food with him mentally." He finished emptying the first round of tea from the pot (http://www.instructables.com/id/How-to-make-a-proper-cup-of-tea/).

"He did explode all the way once when I was in grade school. I didn't recognize him when he came back; kept asking when Da' was coming home. Mom had a fit when I kept climbing between them."